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Jan. 21st, 2007 | 02:21 pm

Hey, I haven't written in this journal for a long time and I decided to just post a little update.

I hope everyone is doing alright and living your lives to the fullest.

I'm currently stuck in a school>work>ffxi loop and I'm so unhappy with my life at the moment. The asian girl I had been seeing for 2 months, full knowing that she had a boyfriend of over 2 years, ignited a dramabomb of epic proportions and I'm at a loss of words. It all started when she, out of the blue and after having been friends for a little over a year, started paying more attention to me. She suggested one day that we should go back to my place and watch a movie... fooling around ensued. A few days later I found out that things were going sour between the girl and her boyfriend, and from talking to her girlfriends I jumped to the conclusion that she was just using me as a stand-up boyfriend for the time being and that they would get back together at a later time. I mean, christ, I'm the perfect subject for that (get easily attached, can be charming for up to 24h, etc), and I fell for it 100%. I decided to stand up to her, tell her how I felt and just break off things with her. And so I did.

I just didn't suspect she'd go to my friends and tell them I sexually harrassed her when we were at my place.

Over the past two weeks they severed all contact. No texting, no inviting out to parties, no nothing. Needless to say I don't have strong ties to my friends, and they're more or less just there for when I'm going out to town to party, but it still hurts and I feel kinda lonely.

I'm just tending a cold at home right now, and I don't know what to do afterwards. I'm not at my wits end and I know I can get through this, I just don't know how.

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Lucas

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from: urashima
date: Jan. 21st, 2007 06:54 pm (UTC)
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Thanks for the kind words. I don't really need anyone to talk to right now. This whole issue just made me realize how fickle most of my relationships are, romantic or not, and it all happened ~2 months or so ago, so I'm getting over it.

I started hanging out with a real nice group of (norwegian) people from my job, and the situation is getting better day by day, really...

I'd still like to talk to you sometime, so send me a message anytime you'd like! :D

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Mizu

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from: mizufusion
date: Jan. 22nd, 2007 11:50 am (UTC)
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*hugs* :o

I think you did the right thing by standing up to her.. It sucks that she turned out to be a bitch and told your friends that, but you friends that believe some random girl over you are the kind you really don't need anyway. I wish I had something inspiring to say, but at the moment I'm a little wasted.. so all I can really say is that I hope you meet some better friends soon, and if your other friends don't want to believe your side of the story, tell them to eat shit and die. At least.. that last part always makes me feel better. ^^;

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